Call it your gut, instinct, intuition, or conscience, that little voice you hear is worth paying attention to.
Two incidents this past week, our first week of school, made me reflect and confirm that I really need to trust my gut. I won’t go into details, but I can describe my thinking, behavior, reaction, and reflection, hopefully to encourage myself, and you, to trust your gut in the future.
The first incident involved something I observed at the end of last school year. I wanted to make a change at the time, but thought I’d give myself some time to process. I continued to consider it over the summer, but I never quite made the decision, partly because I didn’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. The first day of school arrived and because I didn’t go with my gut, there was a minor eruption. Thankfully, I finally made the decision I considered last spring and all summer, it just took me too long to realize my initial instinct was correct. I could have saved time, energy, and a bit of drama if I would have trusted my gut last spring.
The second incident involved a decision I should have made but didn’t. I actually remember the thought passing through my head then quickly leaving. I also gathered input from others, but things still didn’t feel right. Then, the event happened and I received some unhappy feedback from others. What I learned is to pay attention and spend time with those fleeting thoughts. Because it was the beginning of school, my excuse is that I was too busy to trust my gut. Like the message above says, “If you truly feel there’s something, chances are there is.” I needed to notice that quick gut feeling and spend time with it. Had I done that, I believe I would have made a better decision.
So, pay attention to your intuition, use your instincts, and trust your gut. When you do that, I believe you’ll make the right decisions and save time, energy, and stress.